Let me just tell you. Not everything we pick up as children is right. Some things we go through as children, scars the soul. Many children do as they were taught. Parenting is a double edge blade.
When you don’t have what all the other kids have. There is a void and a silent resentment that grows like cancer. Alienated, do we become as young children? A whole lot of false teachings come in to play. When you’re left to deal with what all went wrong.
If a kid at school has a bad day, he leaves school with what went on to tell his support system. Namely, a mother or father. Kids that don’t have anyone to process their problems with tend to just stack it deep down inside the bottle. The cap to the bottle is easy to fill.
Depending on how long they’ve had those unwanted feelings and thoughts bottled up -is a gauge that will kinda tell you how long it will take to get right. Then, times that by five.
It’s easy holding all those unwanted thoughts and feelings in, but getting rid of them doesn’t have to take an explosion. When a child has no way to deal with what they’re going through or have gone through, their family’s pay the consequences and often times society pays as well. I was once one of those children.
Parenting isn’t easy. Sometimes, we don’t get it right. But we learn and become better. It’s also important that you don’t hold unwanted thoughts and feelings inside. If ever you need someone to talk to, I’m here. Inbox me on Facebook @kurkoinspires to begin a chat.
Issues by Paul Kurko
Discover the life-changing lessons of Paul Kurko in his debut autobiography, “Issues.” This page turner will grab you. In it, Paul doesn’t hold back. He says what he means and means what he says.
Paul opens up about the resentments he had when his mom died. Resentments that eventually led him on path straight to prison. His story of recovery and redemption will encourage you to embrace possibility, awaken to curiosity, and take inspired action. You’ll want to share this book.
Loopholes by Paul Kurko
Life is a roller coaster for all of us. No matter where you are in life, no matter your age or your station, life has a way of throwing us curve balls. Sometimes, it seems like you are on top of the world, only to have events change suddenly so that you are struggling. Other times, you may be in dire circumstances with no hope, when suddenly, against all odds, a loophole changes your situation for the better.
Loopholes is a journey through those times in my life when God showed up in a big way; those circumstances where I should have lost my freedom, or even lost my life because of the decisions I made, where suddenly I was delivered from the worst possible consequences. God’s grace is real. And while we all suffer the ups and downs of life, I hope these stories from my life can show you that God is always working behind the scenes as our Divine Counselor, finding those loopholes we didn’t even dare to hope for.